Third Way

our posture


At CrossWinds, our values shape not just what we believe, but how we live together. One way we do that is through a "Third Way" posture, guiding how we lead, teach, and walk with each other, especially amid disagreement. This page explains that posture and how it fits our shared values.



What We Mean by “Third Way”


A Third Way posture allows for certain theological differences.

In a polarized culture, churches are often pressured to choose between:

  • conviction or compassion
  • clarity or belonging
  • truth or love

We believe Scripture calls us to hold these together. For us, that looks like living out a Third Way expression of Church.

Third Way means:

  • We take historic Christian faith seriously.
  • We teach Scripture honestly and responsibly.
  • Many issues of faith are complex and require discernment.
  • We remain committed to shared life together, even when agreement is incomplete.
  • We trust that formation happens best over time, in community, under the Spirit’s guidance.

Third Way is not about avoiding truth. It is about practicing truth in a way that allows us to choose acceptance over fear and enables us to live in the freedom of trusting the Holy Spirit to guide each of us in our own convictions.

Where Third Way Applies — and Where It Does Not


Being a Third Way church does not mean everything is open for debate, or that we don’t hold to essential beliefs.

Settled Christian Convictions (Not Third Way)

There are core beliefs we hold clearly and teach consistently, including:

  • The life, death, and physical resurrection of Jesus
  • Salvation by grace through faith
  • The authority of Scripture
  • The call to repentance and new life in Christ
  • The mission of the Church

These are foundational, not negotiable, and not treated as discernment areas.

Discernment Areas (Third Way Posture Applies Here)

There are limited areas where faithful Christians disagree in good faith, and where cultural pressure often distorts Christian witness.

In these areas, we intentionally practice a Third Way posture.

Examples include:

  • Sexual ethics and identity
  • Political engagement and public witness
  • Certain church practices shaped by context and tradition

In these spaces, we prioritize unity in Christ, careful teaching, patient formation, and love for real people—not ideological sorting or reactionary stances.

What Third Way Is — and Is Not


To be clear:

Third Way is not:

  • A political position
  • A marketing strategy
  • A refusal to teach or lead
  • A claim that all viewpoints are equally true

Third Way is:

  • A commitment to conviction with humility
  • A refusal to weaponize doctrine
  • A belief that acceptance can precede full agreement
  • A trust that God forms people over time

This posture influences how we teach, disciple, and care for one another at CrossWinds. Rather than collapsing complex questions into single statements, we address them with prayer, Scripture, and pastoral wisdom.

For more information regarding our Third Way values, we invite you to watch this sermon on the topic.

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